And how do people check what they think your opinions are if not by paraphrasing back to see if they have it right? It is pretty basic communication in my book.If you want to disagree with what I’ve said please quote me, don’t just generalise and say that is what you believe I am saying. Can’t be that hard . Jeez!
"Oh Lord, please don't let me feel understood"...
You are far too cunning for my simple mind to understand so I'll happily leave it at that.