The 90s and 2000s NRL had a sort of mongrel about it. Your mentioning of your age suggests you're just a bit older than me and with aging I actually now realise how young the players look as we're older. What I mean is the NRL seemed like a goliath product as a kid but looking at everything around it, empty stands, shabby grounds or ad hoc low table teams, there were issues there. Nevertheless it was framed in a way that made a lot of people in society interested. The footy was a popular topic.
Naturally as a id a 7k crowd felt massive. The Olympic stadium opener was something else when I went there though.
It's the same with Barclays EPL era players. They had a real go unlike today's boring style. No mud on the kits either.
The NRL has just become over-sanitised and boring.
The wrestling crap that infected the game for years had rendered the game unwatchable for a long time.
The "shabby" suburban grounds always had that appeal to me.
As a lifelong Cronulla fan who grew up in the Shire, there was nothing better than going along to Shark Park back in the day to watch blokes like Ettingshausen, McGaw, Miller, M. Rogers, Lang etc.
Even if I still lived at home up there today's game just doesn't have that same mystique about it anymore.
The way the game has been officiated since the 2010's has made the game look contrived and "managed" to get a result for certain teams.
The AFL's issue for me is the game at the elite level has been changed to look akin to basketball on grass.
That game's zenith was in the 90's as well.
Living in an AFL state now I prefer to go along to watch the local state league (in my case the SANFL) team run round.
It's a suburban ground, full of local players and real fans attend the matches, not these look at me types who need music blaring through the speakers during games to be "entertained".
As for the EPL, unlike yesteryear where you had local players who would die for their club, today's game is full of foreigners with no emotional, real attachment to the club and games are largely attended by selfie seeking tourists.