I see a third argument - that just says this is a day that we have had for sometime and what it means to Australians in general is just a celebration of us all as one country. No pre-history, no 'get over it' - let it be nothing more than Australia Day and move on to actually addressing the real issues of traditional ownership and right by birth and citizenship.
By traditional ownership I am also including the whole spectrum of indigenous affairs without belittling them with one expression.
I can imagine just as much pain and hurt if the date was changed and still called Australia Day because much of the argument is about the physical amalgum that is 'Australia', what place the original inhabitants have in it, and whether Australia should exist as a new world country in the first place.
Pick a random day, call it Australia Day, and exactly the same legitimate discussions would come up - and continue to come up until the actual issues of indigenous rights and ownership are resolved. However that is done. And then there will still be a problem with it for some whichever way resolution is managed you can be sure.
Invasion Day feelings are not tied to 26 January in reality - it is the principle that has not been resolved so it will stick whatever date got chosen.
On your other point, if the bomb had gone off it would have been a mass killing with outrage - I agree it is mindboggling that it is seemingly less of a thing because it failed. What could have been is horrendous.
Well, the current iteration of Australia day has only been celebrated since 1994. It's had many different dates in the past, and even different states celebrated at different times. Invasion day has been around much longer than that. So in essence, some time is only 30 years. It's not that significant in the scale of 200 years of colonisation. It can't be nothing more than 'just Australia Day' though. It is the day for Indigenous people that signifies the start of colonisation, not the celebration of this nation. For them, this nation is built off the back of their ancestors blood, so how can they celebrate that?
We have had many chances to address the real issues. The Voice got shot down, despite overwhelming support for it from First Nations people. We have had multiple First Nations bodies to parliament appointed and then disbanded. We've had conservative governments virtue signal during their time in power and not actually take any action on First Nations rights and needs. The man who was gunning for PM ran out of the apology. He labelled Welcome to Country as virtue signalling and overdone. Refused to stand in front of the Aboriginal flag, and promised to remove First Nations names from significant bases and areas. I'm not talking about a guy from the 70's but a guy who wanted to be PM last year. First Nations people still face higher incarceration rates and unfair treatment. How can we address all these issues when we can't even respect a simple request to not celebrate an invasion on one day? How can we take the right seriously when they say they want to do right by First Nations people when their leadership is deep rooted in not wanting to, and people vote for them?
A simple thing as not understanding the significance of the Welcome to Country. "I sHOulDn't haVE to Be wELcOMeD tO My COuNTry". They are not welcoming non First Nations only. They welcome other First Nations people too. It is an engrained part of their culture and custom that signifies respect and recognition. It signifies welcoming. If they never welcomed other tribes and people, it meant that you were not allowed and had to either leave, or there would be a fight between those tribes. In essence, it signifies that they accept and respect you. Yet, here we are in 2026, where people boo it and refuse to take that respect offered. So i'm sorry, but all this, "put it in the past and let's move forward" is very hard to be taken genuinely when all these things still exist, and are evidence that people don't actually want to move forward.
Invasion day is specifically tied to 26 January because that is the date Arthur Phillip declared the land in the name of the Kingdom. Indigenous people are saying, "change the date". Those words in and of itself, from them, suggests that they would not create issue on any other day. We have to be genuine with our efforts. Not just, "we changed the date, what more do you want". It's been 20 years since the apology, and we still have non First Nations people telling First Nations what they think they need and deserve.
Just because something is hard, doesn't mean you don't do it. Those arguments are tied to strawman fallacy. It's what conservatives and the right have done for a long time. "It won't change anything because there will be all these other things anyway". So because it's hard we shouldn't try, and put it the work needed?
It was a terrorist act. It should be charged as. The refusal to label it so, and the immediate deflection is evidence of the bias reporting, and systemic racism that exists.
Now, I'd love to keep engaging and discussing, but it has been very tiring trying to justify the humanity of people. So forgive me if I don't reply to you, but I don't think I can say anything I haven't already said, or provide any evidence or facts I haven't already, that is going to move the needle of though that many of you have. You seem rational, but there are many that are just stubborn and not here to actually discuss genuinely. Have a good evening.